Been wanting to post this for a long time but haven't gotten enough feels to do so. Until this morning. Had a usual chat about an unusual topic over a usual timing with an unusual person. hur hur
You know how people always say that opposites attract and like ends repels? I dunno. To me this statement just doesn't feel right. Maybe, at best, opposites complement, but also to some extent. In reference to relationships, how can 2 different people live together with so much possibility of clashing with each other and yet hope to work things out! Imagine the pain when problems can't be resolved, when you realise that your differences cut through so deep. It scares me sometimes of who I might find and what I might find if I ever love someone who's the exact opposite of me. Will we ever be on the same page? Will our priorities differ? Who's right and who's wrong? I shudder at the thought of facing these questions with someone who might not even know me.
Similarities bring people together. Common childhoods, common experiences, they do more than just create a medium for meaningful interaction. There is a special bond that has the potential to bind them. A bond that can be nurtured and grown over time.
Similar views on life, love and liquor.
Lately I've been pondering quite a bit on love. Not that I would want to fall in love again at this point in time, but just thinking of the possibilities excites me. It's been keeping me awake when I should be asleep. Keeping me sane when the world is driving me nuts. It's been so refreshing!
Yet it feels like everything that has happened has happened for a reason. The past few weeks have been nothing short of ups and downs and I get a feeling that God is trying to tell me to slow things down. All I can ask right now is for wisdom to discern, and for God's will to be done.
Amber's nice, but it'll have to wait.
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